Am i being too strong before until i feel like too fragile right now?😔
Jangan kita pandang masalah orang dan judge someone on their problem. Same as we don't want peoples to judge of what we're doing or what had happened in our life.
When we saw someone cry, or maybe they complaining about something. Dont simply judge them for what they're complaining only, try to be in their shoes. Berdiri disisi dia everytime, feel what they felt. As if you can "live' in their mind to see what actually in their mind. This is a reminder for me too.
Maybe sometimes they are just be too strong before. They had enough dugaan sampaikan sampai satu tahap, the only thing they can do is crying. But after that they start to berdiri semula. But yes, dia dah rasa 'fragile'. Because dia simpan lama.
Simply, people tend to judge others. It's like a norm eventhough diri sendiri pun tak suka bila di judge. Senang cerita, orang senang dia nak judge but when it comes to themselves, dia marah.